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This is such a useful resource Amy, beautifully written. It’s such a gift to others going through similar journeys. It’s so important we talk about this stuff 💕

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Thank you so much Kate fot taking the time to read it and comment. I found recommendations and listening to others about their experiences really helpful. Particularly because you can choose when you who and what you want to hear if know what I mean.

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Yes it’s good to know you’re not alone, even if the experience is unique to you. And to be sensitive to yourself, inevitably others won’t always have the capacity or do or say the right thing. 💕

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Amy thanks so much for collating and sharing this. I've sent to a few friends too and bookmarked myself.

It was also lovely to hear you read it. Your mum sounds like an incredible woman 🥰

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Thanks so much for listening and sharing, Lauren. I think the mix of advice and storytellers you enjoyed with the person you lost helps you muddle through.

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Absolutely! I'm looking forward to getting into Ina Garten's memoir for just that reason, as used to watch the Barefoot Contessa with my Gramma, and she reminds me of her in so many ways too 💛

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My mum loved the Barefoot Contessa. Let me know how it is and if you'd recommend. I also went to a lot more stand up comedy.

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Ah I will do!

Stand up also sounds like a great suggestion x

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What a beautiful piece Amy. I’m so, so sorry. We’re in the same club, this month marks (unbelievably) 7 years since I lost my mum and joined the club. That you’re able to write so beautifully and share so coherently is incredible, as I felt barely literate for the first two years. Sending you lots of love.

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Thank you so much for reading and your kind words. What do you think your mum would love about who you are now?

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